Updated: I made it out ALIVE!

For those of you wondering what happened after the “cliff-hanger” on this post, it has since been updated. Take a look.

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A Refreshing Bath

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We had a wonderful fifth anniversary in Bath over the weekend. It was nice to rest a bit and catch up with one another after a couple busy/stressful weeks.We’ll post more details from our trip to Bath in the next day or so, but click here for a sneak peek.

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The London Workout

Ever wonder why people in big cities are thin? Now, I know.

Here’s a list of the regular “athletic activities” in the daily life of a Londoner:

  • Carrying 20lb+ of groceries and supplies back from the market
  • Schlepping a 20lb+ briefcase to and from the office
  • Walking to the tube… I’ll have to wear a pedometer to give an accurate mile count for my days of walking
  • Walking up the escalator if in a hurry
  • A key word is WALK — we walk EVERYWHERE
  • Carrying furniture back from Ikea (or elsewhere) — good for your arm muscles
  • Running to catch the train
  • Belsize Park’s on a hill — we walk up and down it at least twice a day. That, alone, is a good workout.

Another adjustment. While we claim to dress for the weather in the US, we don’t, really. In the US we can get by with wearing just about anything because we only have to deal with the weather on the way from the car to the office. Here, you really do dress for the weather. Since you walk outside and are exposed to the elements, you have to look at the weather forecast very carefully before you venture out for the day. If you wear the wrong thing, you’re MISERABLE.

So. Why are people in big cities thin? They get a good workout going out and about by day, and they also eat much less because the less they eat, the fewer groceries they have to carry home :).

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Much Better

Now, I’m into the groove. All’s going much better than earlier this week. We began real classes this week (Eek… quantitative!) and G secured all the necessary furniture items for our flat (even the legs for our desks!). We’re both feeling much more settled and falling into a routine.

Too, our land line was installed on Monday. This line allows us unlimited international calling so when I begin to feel a bit homesick, I can just call you guys. (I think I talked with my mom and little brother for a bit over an hour on Wednesday… I guess no matter how old we are, we still need moms to make us feel better). Now, we’re just waiting for our broadband — once that is installed (likely early October), we’ll be home free.

I’ll post new photos of our flat over the next couple weeks as we put things in place.

Other news. Today’s our 5th Anniversary! We’re off to Bath today and will return to London on Sunday to have dinner with our neighbors from Raleigh — Kyle & Nancy. It will be nice to see a few familiar faces.

Here’s a bit more “London trivia” for you:

How to assimilate — become a Londoner:

  • Carry a VERY big purse
  • Grocery shop online for delivery to your home
  • Read the paper standing up on the tube (or as you take the lift or escalator in the tube station)
  • Wear comfy shoes that obviously don’t go with your outfit as you walk to your office — then change once you arrive
  • Wear a dress over your pants
  • Wear ballerina slippers with sequins
  • Eat “Jammy Dodgers” — like American custard cremes only with very sticky jam in the middle and a hole in the top
  • Buy pre-fab dinners from the market on the go
  • Tea, tea and MORE tea — at least 3-4 per day
  • Have at least 4 pints of beer in one sitting (don’t worry — we’re not aiming to assimilate on this one)
  • Profess Indian and Thai food to be your favorites
  • Whenever you disagree with whatever another person is saying, express your angst by saying “rubbish”
  • Instead of considering the “free papers” given out at the Tube stations and city streets a nice convenience, you begin to think they’re “rubbish”
  • You shop for organic products
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I made it out ALIVE!

Well, I survived a sinking ship — and life on the third bunk aboard a British Royal Navy ship for two nights. Not to mention a weekend with 32 type-A MBA’s 🙂

The best part is that I’m the better for it.

We left school on Friday at 2:15 for a 2-2.5 hr. drive to Portsmouth aboard a hired bus (coach in London-speak). 4 hours later we arrived in Portsmouth to find a very worried school representative and course instructor… apparently the bus driver didn’t know the way and took us on the scenic route. BUT, the rest of the weekend was very well organized and we (as half our the MBA class) got a lot out of it.

Upon arrival, the course instructors took us immediately to board the vessel– an all-metal battleship named the “Bristol”. The Flagship (the name of the program aboard the ship) instructor immediately took us to our quarters below deck… I was wearing a skirt and heels as we were encouraged to wear our business casual attire straight from class… I was surprised to find TWO very steep ladders to greet us as we made our way downstairs. I did my best to navigate the tall, steep ladders gracefully despite my girly attire. Below deck, we found camp-style bunks — 3 up! — without ladders for climbing. 2 showers for 12 girls (5 separate showers for the 21 guys) 5 mirrors and 3 spare outlets for our various appliances. Needless to say, beauty was not to be a focus of our weekend’s activities.

After a few minutes, we made our way to the “mess” for a curry dinner… surprisingly good food, in fact. And we had a bit of a “pub night” there, in the mess, before making our way back to the ship for the night.

On Saturday, we had the typical English breakfast (sausage, bacon — ham by American standards, toast, stewed tomatoes, baked beans, poached eggs, cereal, and something they call squash juice — it’s a lot like watered-down Tang. And then we were off for the day’s team building activities. The folks in my group were from France, Kazakhstan, Korea, Turkey (but lived in Iraq for the last 1-2 years), America (x2), and India. I’m quite impressed by how well my group members speak and understand English despite their backgrounds. All speak very clearly and we encountered few language barriers.

The activities were good — all focused on team-building and communication. Emphasizing the importance of being a strong, communicative leader on group tasks.

We had dinner in the officer’s club on base late Saturday and had a great time getting to know one another… we even crashed someone’s 50th birthday party. Fun!

Then, Sunday we woke early and went straight for ship repair training after breakfast. First, we were assigned to a room aboard the ship — my team was assigned to the generator room — a small space about the size of the smallest bedroom in our house in Cary for those who visited us… very small. After a briefing on how to fix the various holes we would encounter (buns, wedges, wedges and beams constructed with clips and other padding to ensure minimum leakage, etc.), we ventured onto the ship. The lights shut off, the ship began to rock about 20 degrees, and the space began to fill with cold water (18 degrees Celsius). We gathered in a room upstairs as things began to churn–awaiting “go” to make our way into the generator room.

“Surprisingly”, a water vein broke overhead as we tried to make our way down the very steep ladder stairs situated just below a port hole in the upper deck. We had to angle our hard hats to keep the water off our faces as we attempted to lean and kick in order to avoid tripping.

My task was to sure up loosened hatch bolts and insert wedges to ensure they were secure. The room filled with water–I had to go with the rocking and use the opposite high points to my advantage. I didn’t want to dive underwater…after securing the bolts, we constructed a beam/board support structure to support the bolts and wedges against the water pressure coming from below.

During this first phase, there were also 4 small/medium holes in the wall–all were spouting water. We split wedges and inserted them into the wall to close off the water. With phase I complete, we made our way upstairs and situated ourselves in a little room while they transitioned to Phase II. One of our group members became sea sick–he left the ship leaving us one man down for this second phase.

Upon making our way downstairs, we found ~10 large to medium irregular and round holes in the ship’s wall. Our task was to close off the holes with buns (large, cork-shaped, wooden bits), or by splitting wedges. Short of time and men, we took turns bracing each other against the water pressure in order to patch the holes. With this complete, we then began to install clips that attached to the boat’s wall. These clips would hold a mattress to provide further support to the materials used to sure-up the holes, and would also allow us to insert board supports and wedges in order to further support the fix.

So. Overall, this was a great experience…Portsmouth was a new place and was very hospitable. And you’ll be happy to know that you now have a friend who can “save” the ship should we hit an iceberg or wayward submarine…anyone want to go on a cruise?

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A Little Homesick

I knew it would happen at some point. There were signs, but it’s official. Today’s the day. I’m homesick.

Last Wednesday, I received a card from my family — a we love you and are proud of you card. It was my day off from class and I found the card in our box as I exited to go to the grocery. I could barely read the writing on the envelope through the building tears in my eyes. Not to mention read the card.

I haven’t written much about it, but leaving the US for London was the most difficult thing I’ve ever done. I can leave “things” — like houses and cars and “stuff” easily enough, but people were much harder to leave. Some joked that they wanted to be stuffed in my suitcase, I secretly wanted them to come along.

So. Why today? Along with the newness of London and our limited support network in place here, and the signs and symptoms last week, I was exhausted upon returning from Portsmouth yesterday. After a few classes today, I checked my e-mail and found a message from a friend who’s expecting. She’s due in November and just found out that it’s a girl. That, of course, made me think of another good friend who’s due this weekend. Which made me think of my little sister’s birthday next Sunday. And our friend Ana’s wedding in Guatemala next July and countless other occasions that we’re sure to miss along the way.

In life, I place priority on experiences and people. It’s not that I feel obligated to be with you all for events and occasions, it’s because I WANT to be. I choose my friends very carefully, you’re important — I want to give you the attention and support you deserve.

So, today, I could use a few prayers for strength to make it through this first bit of homesickness. Please know that you’re thought of and VERY important.

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Day 4 at Business School

I must say that I’ve been very impressed with the folks at Cass so far. Cass seems to be a teaching school — a university most concerned with its students’ ability to learn sound business principles to guide them through real-world scenarios. In contrast — and in hindsight, VT had much more of a research focus — it was less concerned with what its students took away (in my perspective) and much more concerned with being published with worldwide acclaim. That’s not to say that we didn’t get a good education at VT — we did — but Cass is now affording me a new perspective for comparison.

How so? During my first week at Cass, I’ve experienced professors who have crafted interesting, intriguing, and insightful activities that reinforce the main lecture topic and tie perfectly into the overall plan for the day. And they’ve filled ENTIRE days of class with these activities (we’re with the same professor from 9A to 6P) without boredom or student complaints. We leave the room wanting more…

In contrast, my professors at VT often lost my interest within their one to two hour blocks — their activities were taken from the book and their insights were lifted from their teaching manuals. In some cases, my professors at VT did share lessons learned from their research or life experiences, but not often.

Perhaps it’s just that I’m paying for it this time and determined to take more away? Maybe it’s just because this is the first week, or perhaps because the topics of our lectures (Strategy and Group Dynamics — a subset of Organization Behavior) are of interest to me. But I believe that there’s truly a diffence in teaching styles and abilities. Whatever the difference, it’s certainly a welcome change.

[Hopefully they’re not simply teasing us with short bits with their star professors before we dive into our more mundane first block courses (Quantitative Methods, Internet Technology, Finance/Acctg) the week of Sept 25.]

Whatever the case, I’m enjoying it while it lasts. Tomorrow, we have class from 9A-1P and we’ll then leave London for Portsmouth for an orientation weekend team exercise. We’ll sleep on a boat and pretend to drown. Should be interesting 🙂

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